Do you want to get the goal without handling the process? Life does not work like that.
Goal changes with time & situation, but Process remains the same.
THE ENTIRE PROCESS IS ALL ABOUT BEING DEVOTED TO THE PROCESS.
Whatever is your goal right now probably 5 years down the line it will not be relevant to you. So, you are wasting your life and going in the direction which might not be the right direction down the line 5 years. Just think, what was our goals when we were 5-10 years old kids, what was our goals when we were 20-25 years or when we were 35-40 years or when we will be 50-60 years? Priority & goals changes at every stages of life and if you are focus on goals then you will always be unhappy whether you achieve it or not?
Let say, if you don't grow, you freeze then the same goal will remain there for the next 5-10 years. If you are evolving and growing today then what means today may not means the same 5-10 years down the line.
So, this goal business you should leave, who are you to set the goals.
Look at the situation you are in right now, try to work on this situation and improve upon it so that tomorrow will be better for you.
What will happen to us? Where we all will go? Shall I share the secret to you?
The last scene in your life is we'll be DEAD, that’s ultimate goal of everyone alive.
How deeply you are engaged with the details of today will determine the quality of what you create tomorrow. If you do not engage yourself with the process of today, and if you succeed in your goal, you will be miserable, if you do not succeed still, you will be miserable. That is why we can “enjoy the journey NOT destination”.
While investing, feel the joy of identifying the great businesses at early stage, nurture them by standing tall behind the promoters/company while they grow from micro-cap to small cap and then to mid & large cap. Remember that you are an investor and investors are like a KING MAKER, hence your behavior must be like a KING MAKER not like a beggar who expected & get penny. You are neither an employee nor an employer, rather you are an investor (may it be small or big investor hardly matter, it is the position or status of being giver which matters) who gives money/capital to the business so that they can grow. Hence stop doing micro-management of any company where you have done the due-diligence and have faith on the management running the show. If you are really worried so much then better go and take a job in that company where you have invested.
The minimum level of maturity expected from investor is to have patience & courage to stay with the company while they go thru ups and downs. If you are focused on process not goal, you will not feel anxiety or stress of volatility in the stock because you are not at all looking at stock, you are looking at the potential of business down the line 5-10 years. This is where huge wealth are created, this is how big well known investors has created wealth.